All I’m getting from this curse acceptance stuff is that people want to try to fuck with other people’s lives or cause them harm instead of sorting things out or just getting on with their lives like reasonable human beings.
I really don’t care how much hate this earns me,…
It’s pretty amusing that you make this point, because I’ve noticed something in my almost 9 years of practice. Those people who I have met in person, such as here on Tumblr, who jump straight to curses, are really bad at them. The energy they bring carries nothing more than pettiness and weak anger. The curses have little effect and are quite pointless outside of allowing those people to let go of their anger a little bit.
Those who use it with respect and who use it when absolutely necessary seem to be much more powerful with their curses. The feeling of responsibility for the action coupled with the sorrowful pity towards the person being cursed charges the action in such a powerful way, much more so than what petty anger could ever do.